Ropes are my home. There is no place, no time and no situation where I feel more comfortable. 

This passion has helped me over the past years to understand my body in ropes; I have explored my strengths and weaknesses and expanded my ability to communicate.

 

Especially the clear communication between rigger and model is very important. I used to believe that a good tying session depends on how good my rigger is. And that as a model I have relatively little influence on how a session will develop. Today I understand that models have at least as much, if not more influence on a session than their active partner.

 

Tying provides ways to deal with yourself, to open up emotionally and to trust yourself. My rigger and I go along with each other on this path, because we are in constant communication with each other. 

 

When I tie with him/her, I offer him/her a look into my innermost being. Give my partner the opportunity to see what storms he/she releases in me. Which emotions I'm dealing with. What I feel at this moment for my rigger. 

 

In the end it is a constant exchange of emotions, a stream that carries us along and makes us forget everything around us. And it's this closeness during a session that allows me to see what's happening and going on in my partner with an intensity rarely seen before.